my favorite movie.. 200 pounds beauty!!!

200 pounds beauty is a great show.. it touched my heart especially at the last part yet filled wih comedic parts which can make you laugh..

after watching the show.. ooo.. i want to go for plastic surgery too!! i watched this show 3 times!! and at each time i have different understanding of the show..

the 1st time, i am touched at her last part where she made a confession that she went through a plastic surgery... the 2nd time, i laughed at all the funny parts in the show, appreciating the songs more than i did when i watch it for the 1st time, the main actor and actress is really gorgeous!! the 3rd time when i watched it with ali family again we watched the show together for the 1st time i understand that the main actor already had a special liking for hana.. he said those harsh words to ammy so that she can stop her bully acts to hana.. that's why at the end, he can accept her so graciously.. oh my, this is indeed the most touching story of the year!

some of the trailers for you to enjoy and for me to proudly publish my favorite movie in my precious blog..

lyrics of maria.. with courtesy of melanda-chan

자 지금 시작해 조금씩 뜨겁게 우 두려워하
지마 펼쳐진 눈앞에 저 태양이 길을 비춰
우 절대 멈추지마 Maria Ave Maria 저 흰
구름 끝까지 날아 Maria Ave Maria 거친
파도 따윈 상관없지 기적은 이렇게 내 눈앞
에 펼쳐있어 우 절대 멈추지마 Maria Ave
Maria 저 흰 구름 끝까지 날아 Maria Ave
Maria 거친 파도 따윈 상관없지 (Maria)
멈춰버린 심장전체가 걷잡을 수 없이 뛰어
와 Maria Ave Maria 저 흰 구름 끝까지 날
아 Maria Ave Maria 거친 파도 따윈 상관
없지 Maria Ave Maria 저 흰 구름 끝까지
날아 Maria Ave Maria 거친 파도 따윈
상관없지

i love this song too.. when i watched it the 3rd time on a dvd, i finally saw the english translation of the meaning.. both marie and this song really is so beautiful..

i love kim ah jung.. im crazy about her!! i want to be as beautiful as her!! i want to be a beautiful girl too!!

see she's soo beautiful!!

it got her the best actress award.. yoo-hoo!! cheers!! go girl!!

i like her so much.. some ads of her.. see she's so cute!!

see even the background of the pantene ad has the maria music..
im going to change my shampoo to pantene too!!

i like her in this pizza ad too.. so cool.. why we do not have this kind of ads in singapore??

look at her dance moves.. she can convey so much in an ad.. i wonder why av (my ex co) dont use her for their CL TVCs..

she's so beautiful.. she's so talented.. look at her in another bra ad..

look at this coke ad.. though it seems silly when they do the styles but it conveys the message that they drink coke to make them look cool.. they are used to drinking beer.. but this ad shows them drinking coca cola!!

i just love her and cannot get enough of her mann!!

my dessert shop..

am already planning for the weekend le.. hee.. so looking forward and happy about it..does it sound familiar, ali family?? hee anyway, yes, im bringing my dear dear to eat something v.nice and something both of us like.. i found it in singapore!! actually, i was not the one who discover this.. it was kendy mummy who told me about it.. located at golden mile.. in the meantime, is a suspense.. when we go down this weekend, will upload some photos of the oo-i-shi thingy!! hee..

i have been wanting to own my own dessert shop ever since i tried the one at bugis a year back.. but no $$ no resources.. do not know how to make.. how to open..?? yesterday, a bright idea came to my mind.. i want to open a franchise of a particular dessert store.. it came across to me while dear dear and me were buying our favourite almond paste.. i asked the assistant if this outlet is a franchise, she said yes.. she told me to look for the bosses at the main outlet if i am keen to have a franchise of my own.. yes, i know is not easy.. i already plan to spend all of my days in the shop.. to resign from my current job, to stop my studies for now if i can realise my dream.. if you are thinking if my dream is to be a boss?? no, that is not my dream.. my dream is to own a little dessert shop.. to bring great tasty desserts to everyone which also equates to giving those who eat my dessert some sweetness.. pardon me for the bad command of english.. mr tan didnt really teach me well.. mr tan is my english tuittion teacher from secondary school.. now he is my bro's teacher..haha my idea is to bring sweetness and happiness to people!!.. and if the shop really do well.. then i can get papa to be the real boss for the shop.. im sure he will not shortchange me as the idea comes from me.. hee..

on my whole journey back, i was telling dear dear all about my plans which he has heard many many many times.. i think he was very surprised when i approached the assistants to ask them if the shop is a franchise etc.. but that was my dream.. many years back when ya kun kaya toast was offering franchise and i visited this outlet at far east.. i admired the boss.. i didnt talk to him but im quite certain he is the boss and is a family business.. he is cleaning the tables himself, toasting the bread himself.. he is not the one who collects the money and orders people around.. i want to be like him.. i want to have a little shop where i can be proud of.. not that i am somewho is arrogant or proud..

nevertheless, i was sharing this with my dad and he told me that banks are very practical.. they only lend money to the rich and when you have nothing.. the banks will not lend you.. my dad also is very supportive of the idea.. he even told me where to open the shop.. where the crowd is.. thank you papa..

but right now, this cannot be realised and i have learnt to thank Him for the little we have..

still His beloved.. The Almightly One..

my weekend started great but ended very bad especially on sunday night.. n i begin to ponder.. man disappoints but not God.. my Father in heaven.. if the birds in the air do not have to worry about food and fly freely always.. why cant i be like them? like the birds.. who is worry free.. can fly anywhere they want to.. can eat whatever they want to..

recently, so many things have happened.. thanks dear dear n my b sister for standing by and listening to me still believing in me and accepting me.. i realised my loss.. my loss in not attending church.. no longing comprehending the revelation of being highly favored, deeply loved and greatly blessed.. i feel so upset.. human disappoints.. only He can fill the emptiness, can accept me for who i am.. never have i been so upset with life.. now i understand why people suffer from depression.. n why for some people have suicidal thoughts..

no doubt a blog is like an on-line diary, however, to prevent misunderstandings and gossips to start.. i shall not elaborate on the things that has happened.. sweet thoughts meant to be remembered and to be shared.. but sad and depressed things should be kept far far away.. my Papa, i give it all to you.. Thank you Jesus..

as i am feeling so down.. i hum this song.. it made me feel so at peace.. so loved.. still so cherished by Him..

cant remember the lyrics now.. but once i do.. i will write it down.. its a song from ncc.. I remember liao.. it goes..

You give Your Life, Your Life for me for me to live Jesus x4

Hallelujah Hallelujah.. ...
Im so glad You came for me..

its a very light hearted song.. not those slow kind yet can make me feel so love and at peace

my talented aunt..

a drawing when i was 6-7 years old.. my aunt, back then, i think she is still in her secondary school.. she gets me or my sisters to pose for her to draw.. so good of her right? to draw a portriat of me.. so that i get some wonderful memories now, etc.. but let me tell you.. it is not an easy task to pose for her to draw.. can you imagine i have to hug on to my legs at the same position for a few hours??? i cant even move my hands when my legs itchy etc.. she will comment, dont move.. im drawing.. and i will keep asking her.. 阿姨， 你现在画哪里？she will always.. shhh.. or your eyes, your nose, your hand.. haha..

after a drawing it aches so much.. but nevertheless, im glad that i have my own drawing which is so unique from everyone else.. so that i can have good memories on my childhood..

thanks 阿姨 for drawing me, for bringing me to bookfairs when i was young.. still remember the on-the-spot-made donuts you bought for me.. so yum yum.. then we went shanghai together with B sister to make my dream of riding an aeroplane come true!! it was so beautiful! let me find the photos tonight to post it up soon.. pardon me, that time digital camera was still quite expensive so we took pictures on a normal camera that has to be developed..

thanks for bringing us to church.. getting to know Christ.. for giving me tuitions especially during my Os.. travelling all the way from the north to the west.. to make me understand the maths which im poorest at.. o.. wonder how i can cope without u..

love you my dearest and one and only.. 阿姨

p.s: my birthday greeting dedicated from my aunt to me.. click here..

my disappointment...

thank u communters day..

mummy kendy told me about this thank u commuters day thingy.. checked it out n it seems fun.. can participate in groups of 2 or 4.. checked with ali family.. they r soo onz.. even wanted to buy the sbs book etc n drive to all e bus stops..?? haha.. is it necessary, ali papa?? but by the time we realise the closing date to send in our entries was too late.. the closing date was 16 june at 5pm.. so i planned to go down with dear dear on sat to register on the spot n make payment via cash at sph..

it was drizzling on sat when we went down.. when we were at the security.. he told us that the registeration has closed at 1pm.. because there were over whelming response so they had to close the registeration.. we refused to walk away from sph.. then we told the security to give us the no. to call so that we can have a confirmation from the promotions executive to tell us that they have closed the registeration..

initially, e person nv picked up the phone call.. so the secruity tried the radio station, another option to register for the commuters day, however, the guy also told us the same thing.. in fact, he is very nice.. he sounded v.eloquent on the line too..of coz.. he is from the radio station leh.. but he tol d me he is just a part time so he cannot make any decision on that.. he asked if we were at the reception so that he can come down to pass us some premiums.. but i said no. it was a nice act of him but we only wanted to join in the competition..

in the end, the promotions executive told us to email her our particulars so that she can place us in the reserved list.. hopefully some teams withdraw at the last min so we can join..

nevertheless, i thought to myself.. my past events, i hate it when pple do not rsvp n last min want to come.. in the end, i have to keep adjusting my no, worst if i have to make seating arrangements, mr xx cannot sit with ms abc.. always gives me headache.. n when i liaise with sponsors.. i have already commit a no., then i have to call them to change the no. to increase their sponsorships.. so paisay.. no foresight on my part.. now i have to do this to others.. i feel bad.. but the disappointment is beyond description..

shant talk about the disappointment..

some photos taken over the weekend..

saw the dim sum dollies at vivo..
they were giving out tangs voucher.. hee..
but have to perform a rap in front of the audience..

we love ben n jerrry's
esp chuncky monkey!!


e new place for playing with water in public..
its like a free swimming pool

my lovely sis.. 小香

祝你生日快乐! sunday we had a great time at the hotel enjoying hi-tea to celebrate my dear sis birthday..!! yes, this is her 21st birthday.. sis, wishing you a really happy birthday, may yr new job brings u to greater heights, may u stay young, pretty, happy, cheerful always n may all good things abound in u..amen! this sis of mine.. really 女大十八变。。。

she has become prettier n prettier each day.. mayb also she is glowing with radiant from her love.. hee.. im glad tat u have bastian now.. he really takes good care of u n have made u become more mature than your peers n even me?? in terms of your thinking not looks.. dun worry.. hee.. dun u agree my friends, those that have seen her in person because we were from the same pri n sec school..

Bastian n 香 with her customised birthday card n lv wallet!!
card, proudly created by my talented artist
lv platinium sponsors: aunt n big sis.. co-sponsored by me, 大舅，二舅，小舅..

hee though im older than her, she calls me 妹妹.. this is what my family calls me at home.. i remember we were in the same primary sch n where she called me 妹妹 in school.. my classmates will go.. thought she is your younger sis?? how come ur her 妹妹.. hee.. it's fun having so many siblings.. when we were young, the 3 of us.. played play dough, polly pocket, paper dolls, barbie dolls, played cooking together, build e mickey mouse club hse n camp in it.. disallowing the adults to come in.. played games like monopoly, hamburger, uno, scrabble, boggle, dum, 飞机棋, mastermind, caterpillar, swinging monkeys, crocodile the dentist, lego, heart attack, jenga etc.. of course most of the toys r proudly sponsored by my dad, aunt n uncle on our birthdays or christmas!

my sis is in the hospitality industry.. v.hardworking too!, prior to her graduation, she already took up part time jobs in other hotels to have a wider exposure n gain a competivie advantage compared to her peers.. well, her hard work paid off.. soon after she graduated, those interviews that she went, she got in resulting in her dilemma to choose which hotels to work for.. eventally she ended up in a hotel near the esplanade... in her yr there, she had to work shift hours where she has to stay in the hotel as sometimes her shift can start from 3am onwards and end at 11pm.. if she were to come home, the time she spent on the journey would allow her to have more rest but have to be compromised.. often she had to work longer hours than expected as she has a greater responsibility.. yesterday was her last day at the hotel.. finally!! yipeee!! because she comes home only once a week when she was there, i miss her alot.. whenever she comes home which is usually once a week.. we will talk for v.long. re e time i took leave at home to study.. we ended up talking n snacking n sleeping.. hee.. see i updated my blog for about 2 weeks le but yesterday she asked me, you got blog meh?? haha

whenever she comes home, she will update me on the beauty news, how to care for your face, which brand of cosmetic to use.. dont apply too much make up to maintain the au natural look n maintain the soft supple skin.. must remember to take collagen as im getting older.. but 香 im nt even mid-twenties yet.. hee hee.. im thinking of buying the whitening essence.. im gettin darker n darker because i always have to be in the sun when going out for lunches.. ):

there r times when u call me on e phone to tell me e problems u r facing.. im sorry that i cant b of much help.. i remember v.vividly, there was once when u called me when i was still in jj n i was at imm lunching with my colleagues.. u were crying yet im so helpless.. all the methods that i suggested u have thought of it before.. before i can put my mind at ease on this, my manager came on me to carry out some urgent tasks again which i cant concentrate n think of ways to help.. i felt really bad that im so useless.. im sorry.. but glad all things went well n u enjoyed yourself at the end.. *blink blink* its a secret between us.. dun tell b sis k, but im sure she'll pester me because she likes to read blog.. can u imagine, her hobby is to read blog.. but im glad, else no1 reads my blog.. haha
like my bro.. our sister-ship also not at all smooth sailing.. we had our fair share of quarrels, disagreements n fights!! haha.. yes fights! shant describe our fights in detail..

tdy's a brand new start for her at another hotel.. though it is not the best hotel yet, they treat their staff really well.. i have been in the service industry 2 years back n i have worked with the staff in the hotel before.. they r really a great bunch.. i believe that when top management treats their staff well, staff inturn will treat their customers/ counterparts well too.. for instance, a particular budget fashion chain sells clothings really cheap but when we ask them for a different size or a new piece, they simply go, its all out there.. without any customer serivce at all.. or should i say they simply provide the clothes n no service at all?? making me so pissed off everytime n i do not shop there now.. if i have to spend $$ yet have to tolerate the person's attitude.. i rather don't buy.. often, i buy more because of the salesperson attitude.. in another particular fashion brand in isetan, the staff is extremely friendly n helpful.. their prices r mid-range.. n i get good attitude.. with such a good experience, everytime i buy, i get a few pieces n not 1.. so that's how service is so important now.. so im happy for u that ur working there now.. all e best for yr 1st day at work!!

wan to take this chance to tell u that though we have our share of disagreements, but i love u alot.. hope that next time if u still encounter any problems i can b of much help not wanting u to have problems though.. u will always b my sweet, pretty 小香..

photos taken at the hi-tea..

me, ,]. fish n clement, my cousin
all act cute gang! from the same family tree!!

all of us..
the creator of babes n hunk with their creation n findings!!

hee the 3 lovely sisters..
yo ,]. fish, wat r u doing at e back??


dear dear n me.. great food, great ambience, thumbs up!
香, what r u doing at e back?
y do they like to sneak around when others r taking photos..


the star n the cousins..


we ended up deliciously happy with the main star!!

香 not u, its the laksa we r giving thumbs up to.. hee hee

my weekend..

featuring the new marina south pier.. @ 31 marina costal drive
apologies for e low resolution.. taken with a hp cam
thanks ali family for bringing us to this lo-mantic place...

the wind was so strong.. look at e picturesque scenery..
with the moon on top as if watching over the pier..

while shopping at suntec city, we found this shop that customise the size of your teddy bear.. there is a wide variety of bear bear to choose from.. the head is ready made and comes with the body but not yet stuff with the wool.. u can choose from medium, fat, huggable or dont know what n u can customise the bear bear with a name that is written on the name tag. besides selling the bear bear, it also sells accessories to clothe the bear bear.. u can buy skinny winnie the pooh, hello kitty, schnauzer or etc to make it either fat fat or a thin thin bear.. isn't that interesting?

see the machine spinning the wool n if u purchase the bear bear
u can decide the amount of wool to go into the bear bear.. cool huh

at bishan junction, i chance upon this super big bowl of ramen..!! my fave!! *slurp* *slurp*

the soup makes u go wow..

great effort by the shopping mall together with the sponsor to place a upapa in the mall.. it is really like a mini man standing behind u hitting on u.. so 舒服。。 u can increase the intensity n decrease it according to your preference..

ready to b opinion leader for upapa??
u-pa-pa u pa-pa-u..

we met silver surfer n the fantastic four team!

my lovely bro.. ,]. fish aka xiaokimfish

as promised..
my bro when he is v.young.. hee.. so cute!!=)
scroll below for his current pic.. haha

happie burp'day bro, ok.. be nicer to u.. happy birthday! promised to write a blog on my beloved bro.. yoyo.. then i realised his birthday is coming soon.. so my dear bro, this post is dedicated just for ya.. though u said u "buay gian".. but here goes.. anyway he is like a durian.. hard on the outside but soft on the inside.. n bro, lulian is my favourite though u dislike it.. hee

before he is born, our family had 3 lovely daughters.. we were perfectly fine with that.. when we knew that mummy was pregnant and this time is a little bro.. we were so excited!! we can't wait for your arrival in june.. i remember 小香 reads story book to u every other night when u were in mummy's womb..

at the time when u were born, i was already schooling so had to visit you after my class.. when we first saw u, O my... u were so tiny n weeny.. always sleeping.. that was when papa told me that babies like to sleep.. so fragile i think.. i didn't even dare to carry you.. because u r so small.. hmm.. wonder how u look like when u grow up?? handsome, cute??

when i bring my friends home, they are always so entertained by u.. they gave u a nickname, mr bouncy because u were so active.. u talk to them, u even brought them drinks using the mini-cups mummy bought.. n we all think ur so cute!!

now tat ur grown up, whenever i say ur cute, ur always not happy?? y?? is it because u think that ur all grown up already thats y when we say ur cute, it's not cool?? but yr sis me already quite old le, how to think ur cool like your classmates?? o yes, my bro doesnt know my age because i don't want to tell him.. mayb 1 day when he is much older he knows.. but anyway, its a suspense for now.. hee

O yes.. life is always not that smooth sailing afterall.. yes, i admit we have our fair share of quarrels n fights.. yes, fight.. n my dear dear witness it once recently.. pardon me for my childish behaviour.. hee we quarrel on anything n everything.. who gets to use the house phone.. who gets the remote control.. why he has to take away my pc wire when my mum kept his to prevent him for using the pc??? why i have to open the door for him when he doesn't open for me, y should i help him to write letters to teachers because he has lost his consent form, y is he so rude when he needs my help? haha..

o, u may think that im some petty sis.. but i dont think i m..

refer to scenrio 1:
at 6:30am in the morning when im getting ready for work rushing as usual.. going to put on my make up when
,]. fish said: can help me to write consent form? i lost mine. i need to give it to the teacher. with a bad tone as he is also rushing to sch
i said: huh? what is the letter for? cant u wait till mummy is back? then who authorise for u? i dont wan to forge mum's signature hor.. write yrself lah.. i added
,]. fish said: i cant.. i lost the consent form twice le.. besides the teacher recognise my own handwriting.. its for a revolver practise n requires parents consent..

sighz.. i was thinking to myself.. what is he doing in sch always? how come the consent form also can lost?
v.unhappy i wrote the letter and he signed off..
in situations like these, if time was not a restricting factor, then we would have gotten in a fight!

he is all grown up now.. my friend saw him 2 weeks back n thinks he is 18!!! hee.. nah.. he is only in secondary sch.. in e npcc.. but sadly nv seen him in uniform before.. only in t-shirt n trackpants.. now that he has took up guitar courses, he always come home to tell us what he has learnt n played for us.. though his wish is to get an electric guitar n is looking for kind sponsors.. n im unable to get 1 for u now.. because it is so expensive.. keke.. can consider getting one on yr 21st birthday though.. hee hee.. he can play jay chou songs by himself! in the inital part, he played 晴天, then i always wait till the part where i can sing.. then he will tell me, sorry that's all i know.. haha.. spoiler right? but now he can play the whole song le.. hee

his friends say he looks like tank with the new haircut.. haha.. yes, tank.. because he sang 专属天使。。 n they all wow-ed at his singing.. yesterday i saw tank's ad on a toothpaste n i also tink u look like him bro.. i wasnt joking!!

anyway, nevertheless, he is a great brother.. im proud of him! though he always does naughty things.. but he share little secrets between us.. though i may not be approving of the things he does but he is still a great brother to me whom i will always take care of and cherish..

if i have a late night out.. those that knows where i live, it is very quiet n dark at night n can get really scary.. but i know my bro is still awake.. n i will call him to pick me up from downstairs.. he never fails to accompany me whenever i need him.. thanks my precious brother! he also always eats the food i cook or should i say sample the food i cook.. n always gives me the thumbs up though sometimes it may not be as tasty as it should be.. haha..

my bro.. this birthday though yr wish of electric guitar may not b fulfilled but hope u can get better academic grades to excel both in school n music.. we know yr talents n we will support u! may u b happy always n continue to make all of us at home happy.. may u get a good gf when u r much older to commit n not now okies? may u constantly find favour n receive the relevation of His love n our love for u!

an electric guitar for u.. 小叮当 visually satisfying?? hee

me, my bro tank n my big sis..
see he even act cute when taking pictures.. oh my

p.s we miss u when u went to camp these few days.. wanted to visit u but there was a sudden downpour yesterday nite..

hee.. in the meantime, i m trying to post a pic of u when u were younger.. haha..

my happy moments.. hongkong

hongkong, a shopping and food paradise..

it all started because dear dear want to take a short break to relax before his new job starts and before our exams.. so we embarked on our journey on 12 April.. since natas travel fair is round the corner and according to my travel consultant friend, mic, he said that we should go natas fair to book our travel package so off we went all excited on the 1st day of natas.. disappointed as it can be.. we went from agents to agents, all flights fully booked.. there is an international business conference thereby many business travellers will be there that week.. but we do not have an alternative date! so we asked about taipei but also no flights.. checked out cx, sq all fully booked not even on waitlist.. ): dear dear is starting work soon and exams will soon be coming.. that night, we met up with the ali family.. that was the 1st time i saw ali-mama.. ali-papa went on about his trip in japan.. we were so disappointed that there were no flights to our 1st trip out.. so that night i was so determined and went on jetstar asia to see if there's any seats.. i searched for hk and managed to get tickets.. so i called dear dear at 2am if he wants to go by jetstar.. guess we were too disappointed and we wanted to go no matter what so we made a booking straight away.. with compliments from my dear dear sub card.. haha.. so convenient..

prior to the trip, we were so excited.. dear dear bought a new luggage, searched online on conversing in cantonese as both of us do not know cantonese.. we only know "peng di" --> cheaper in canto.. haha.. i wrote down the itinerary from the day to day plan, the places of interests to visits and of course the shopping places.. hee

just settled into our room.. gota settle our stomachs
next to explore on this new place

look at how obedient the seals n dolphins r..at ocean park


knowing more about opium war
n how china lose hk to the british at asian civilisation musuem

on our way from the ltr station to musuem, we saw this shop called,"pies n tarts".. look at the variety of pies n tarts they have.. they have egg tarts, mik tarts, papaya tarts, tiramisu tarts, blueberry tarts n many mre.. cant remember.. just look at the wide selection.. i grabbed a milk 1 n dear dear ate the tiramisu.. its so delicious!! in the cold weather with the hot tarts!!

pies n tarts just look at the wide selection..
r u drooling already?? opps

me n jay chou at madame tussaud's
安静的接受他， 我想我会放弃你，是应为我还爱你

at the top of the world!! yeah..
not the top yet, only at the peak in hk.. haha

happening place in hk.. lan kwai fong..
did u see the hk beer behind us

bought a couple polo tee..

thanks dear dear for the time n fun spent in hk.. it will always be happy memories!! love u too!

my simple life - my friends

friends.. there are many types of friends.. seasonal friends, friends that goes shopping with you.. friends that you can provide a listening ear, friends that provides 'consultative service' aka aunt agony.. hee.. friends that chill with you.. just listening to the music and drink the night away, party friends that provide you so much advise on the things to do and not to dos during clubbing, the friends that make you drink, drink, drink and drink yet will stop you at the right time to prevent you from getting too high.. or rather drunk.. friends that can go singing with you for 5 hours straight enjoying our own mini-concert.. its great to be a superstar once in a while in the small ktv room with my own few supporters.. hee..

well, i am too blessed with a great bunch of friends.. though i admit i do not have many friends but my friends have been through alot with me.. providing me strength, comfort, advise, fun and etc etc throughout these years.. these friends that i feature on my blog are my bestest friends whom i know will approve of me publishing their photos on my blog..

i will talk about them group by group featuring the ones that i have known them the longest to prevent any form of favoritism hee.. i figured that's the best way..

1st on my list will be my sec sch friends.. these are the friends that really come a long way with me.. known each other from sec 1.. we have more than 11 years of great friendship.. though we do not meet up often as most of us are busy with work, studies, one is getting married soon and etc..

we used to hang around jec, the current jurong entertainment centre.. watching people ice-skating, bowling, at mcds sharing $$ to buy a meal to share as our pocket money is limited.. im sure all of you do too..

i remember there was one year when we were in sec 2 where gladys the one that is getting married in a few months time, during 1 of the school holidays where we arrange to meet up in the mornings to go to the library then jec to hang out.. she is a v.nice and gentle girl.. in some ways, i find her very soft like my elder sis.. everyday without fail, she will wait for me at 9am at je as we have arranged but i always overslept and she had to call my house to realise i was still sleeping then i would rush over to meet her. everyday i will tell her i will not oversleep but i still do. yet she never fails to wait for me patiently.. thanks gladys..

here's their pretty faces..

me and jo at marina mandarin.. at kelly's wedding

from top left to bottom right jane jane aka xiao la la, michelle,
me, galdys and jo

2nd on my list are my poly friends who has been through alot with me too.. they are more updated about my life as we are constantly in contact.. these are the friends that party with me, drink tequila neat, tequila pop, lychee martini.. down down and down.. but control me at the right time to prevent me from getting drunk.. offer me great advices always and never fails to provide a great listening ear.. goes shopping with me esp gen during one of the isetan sale trip where we bought like crazy as if the items were free!! haha..

as we always stick tog in sch, the guys always call us the 4 golden flowers.. so chi-na right? as we always take pics without them, i do not have their yandao faces to post online..

babes, though i have put your on aeroplane a few times but know that i cherish you a lot and i miss the balcony days where we can relax on the sofa ignoring the glances of other people and drink and chat the night away..

ah lian aka tao kay neo, gen, jas n me.. at adrian's wedding

next on my list are my ex-colleagues, i must say that of all the companies i have worked so far.. i enjoyed the most in jj.. though circumstances did not allow me to continue my stay there but im glad for the friends i have made from jj..

mingli, aka my sister.. i think because of our shopaholic, same age and we love to sing sing and sing nature, we became very good friends almost immediately where we went shopping together and sing song.. she has a great voice.. her singing is so powerful that if she joins superstar or idol, im sure she'll get the title..

thanks sis, for always standing by and those words which you said meant alot to me as well.. u cherishing the great friendship between us.. the fact that sometime you came harsh on me but still love me.. well, as a matter of fact, i love you too.. and i hope our friendship will go a long way..

sista n me underneath the moon..

sista n me again at kuriya..

my great hokkien singer esp ji ba ban!! willy, me,
jem jem the swimming instructor, hz n sista at the line

lastly, babe cindy on the list.. my 1st friend in unisim.. the one that encourages me when i wanted to give up on analyzing data.. when i told her that i wanted to defer to the next sem and gave up on my tma 2, she was the one who encouraged me.. telling me that she will lend me her answers and call on her whenever i encounter any problems.. true enough, i called her 1 or 2 am in the morning and she would tell me where to look for the notes and etc.. though she is no longer in unisim.. but she'll always be my great friend..

cindy babe n me..

friends, though we are heading different directions in our lives, at different life stages, have different material needs, have different goals and priorties in life, but i will stil be here for you, cherishing our great friendship like a precious gem.. i always do..

O yes, my new found friend.. baby and me.. featured below. dogs are very loyal creatures.. so i figured that she will be happy that i post her online..

baby n me... hee australian breed malteste who just got
a fur cut that explains the lack of furry fur

my simple life - my handsome dear dear

my handsome boy.. yes, adrian.. the current love of my life.. he never fails to encourage me n support whenever i am down or stressed up with tma, exams, sch, work, friends and etc..

yes, though he is very caring towards me, providing me with much love and care, however, at times i feel so restricted not being able to do much being very demanding on the time we spent.. we had a serious conversation today on this.. we have this conversation many times and things have not changed since though we promised to compromise and take a step further..

ask me if i am happy? yes, definately i am.. who doesnt want a bf who is very caring and being detailed on the things you say and do.. but well, according to sis my great sis cum ex-colleague told me that happiness has to be all rounded and well-balanced, from family, friends, work and love..

thanks dear dear for the care, the time, the effort in this relationship.. i will cherish it..

me n dear dear at sentosa..

at ocean park..

my simple life - my happy family

the story begins where.. me, yes a simple girl born into this happy family with a virtuous mummy, stern-looking yet a wonderful papa, v.gentle n kind elder sister, chili-padi yet pretty younger sister n a stylo milo cool cool bro!! yes, im e middle child.. some say u may have middle child syndrome.. but im proud to say i do not as i have a loving family..

mummy, though she nags pretty often.. but she has alot of good virtues we can learn from, her filial piety n o yes, she can manage e finances v.well.. though often nagging me to save up hee..

papa, though he is a man of few words, esp when there are outsiders around.. but he never fails to display his love for us whenever he can.. being concerned n being v.rational n logical on issues which we as children may never understand their hearts.. i remember e lego, hamburger board games n etc he bought for us when we were young..

b sis, well though i have never told her before, but she is the best sis 1 can find.. always giving the best she can as the eldest n she is only a yr older than me.. for instance, making my dream come true to sit on an aeroplane for e 1st time on my 21st birthday, she shared an air ticket with my aunt as my birthday pressie.. a few days back, realised wat a laggard i've been when i saw her ipod which she has it for sometime already.. then i mentioned that i wan 1 too.. she said ok, i can help to subsidise on yr birthday! hee.. thanks sis for everything.. she is also a social worker, i tink this job suits her alot.. for it requires some1 to truly feel n understand the society, the people, etc etc.. a rather challenging yet fulfilling job.. mayb becoz of her kind nature, she can b a great listener too.. at times, i had to drone on n on on e problems i face, also influence her alot on being a shopper, staying pretty etc etc

xiang, when she was much younger, we call her xiao xiang.. but now she's all grown up so we call her xiang.. though she is a few years younger then me, but she is 1 mature girl.. being so independent often not relying on others... being my younger sis, she also listens to my problems too.. though often she says im too childish which i do not tink so.. :(

bro, becoming mre n mre cool everyday.. he is always full of surprises.. a music lover.. now learning e guitar n after each lessons on sunday, he'll play us e song he has learnt.. he has mre interest in music then e books.. but im proud of u bro, u may b e next talented tank.. "我可以陪你去看星星" he he.. O yes.. he is e 1 who showed me how to create a tagboard.. thanks bro!

My happy family.. dad on another pic..

papa n me.. at merchant court hi-tea

other pics taken at merchant court hi-tea..

my arty farty bro...

me n dear dear w my bro's creation..

opening..

yoyo.. have created this account in 2004 but is only now that I am starting to do some postings on my humble website. as i am in the midst of finding the tagboards, editing photos to upload etc etc etc.. be patient with me and i will get this site up soon..

pardon me for my bad command of english if you note some spelling errors and poor vocab..